Marriage Maintenance

Conversation Starters

If your spouse described the real state of your marriage — not the version you show at dinner parties or on social media — what would they say?

When things go wrong between you, do you move toward each other or away from each other — and when did that pattern start?

What would change in your marriage if both of you woke up tomorrow and said, "I'm only going to focus on what I can control — which is me"?